Syawal, 1429

BSPutra & TSPulai

USIA SETENGAH ABAD, AMAL BERAPA KILO ??

Aku dilahirkan pada tanggal 7-September-1958, genap 50 tahun yang lalu. Kiranya hari ini, usiaku telah menjangkau setengah abad !!!

Aku melangkah ke detik ini dengan perasaan yang bercampur-baur di antara suka dan duka kehidupan yang telah aku lalui selama ini. Walau bagaimanapun, aku tetap bersyukur kepada Ilahi yang masih meminjamkan usia ini kepada ku untuk aku menunaikan amanah yang tidak ku tahu berapa lama lagikah 'kontrak' yang telah aku ikat di alam barzakh dulu dengan Allah SWT akan tamat ..


Aku telah melihat ramai rakan-rakan yang belum mencecah usia ini telah kembali ke Rahmatullah... Peristiwa pagi 2 Ramadan yang baru 4 hari berlalu masih segar di ingatanku... betapa aku telah menatap jasad saudaraku PM Tarmidi Tamsir terbaring kaku setelah dikapan di rumahnya yang hanya 150 meter dari rumahku ..
Ia telah pergi menemui Allah ketika usia baru mencecah 54 tahun ...
Aku telah melihat ratusan sanak-saudara, sahabat handai, kenalan, murid-muridnya yang menyembahyangkan janazah dan mengiringinya ke tanah perkuburan ...

Perginya seorang sahabat yang ku kenali..
Yang tidak kenal penat lelah mencurahkan ilmu kepada pelajarnya...
Seorang ayah yang telah mendidik anak-anaknya sebaik mungkin ..
Seorang sukarelawan masjid yang tidak kurang mencurah masa dan tenaganya..
Seorang yang selalu mengajak hidupkan malam terutama di bulan Ramadan ..
Seorang yang selalu peka kepada masalah jiran di rumah-rumah sekelilingnya ..
Seorang yang amat ringan tulang anggotanya ..

Pemergiannya pada usia yang telah menjangkau setengah abad..
Dengan amal yang (pada mataku) mungkin ribuan jutaan kilo ...
Hanya Allah yang Maha Mengetahui nilai sebenarnya ..

Ku masih ingat sebuah Hadith sahih yang menyebut :
'Apabila matinya anak adam, putuslah segala amalnya kecuali tiga perkara ..
Sadaqatul jariah ..
Ilmu yang dimanfaatkan oleh orang (yang ditinggalkan) ..
Doa dari anak yang soleh ...'

Bagi diriku yang telah menjangkau 50 tahun...
Berapa kilokah amal yang telah aku sediakan untuk dibawa pergi ??


Tiada siapa yang berani menjawab soalan tersebut untuk dirinya..
Apatah lagi jawapan untuk orang lain..
Justeru itu...
Masih banyak persediaan yang perlu kita dilakukan ..
Masih banyak ruang kosong di dalam hidup ini yang perlu kita isikan ..
Semoga semasa pergi..
Biarlah amal kita lebih besar dari Bukit Uhud ..
Insya-Allah ...


Ya Allah..
Berikan aku kekuatan dan kesihatan untuk penyediaan ini ..
Untuk menghabiskan saki-baki usia yang ada untuk beribadat kepada-Mu ..
Terimalah segala amal yang telah aku lakukan ..
Gandakanlah pahala amal yang telah aku
Berkatilah usia dan hidupku ini ..
Kembalikanlah aku kepada-Mu dalam keadaan beriman & bertaqwa ..

Ameen Ya Rabb 'alameen ...

STOP SMOKING - GOOD START IN RAMADAN

To Muslim friends and colleagues who smoke..

It's a good time to STOP SMOKING this time around after so many failed or abortive attempts .. Let us look at these facts :

Smoking has been targeted as a major public health problem in the United States and the world since 1979 when the US Public health service named it as the number one cause of preventable disease and early deaths in Americans.

In 1982, the Surgeon General, C. Everett Koop, made the statement that smoking was "the most important public health issue of our time." Fortunately the public believed the information and data, and smoking has continually decreased during the last two decades, and thousands of people have successfully quit smoking. Still, there are millions of people who have continued to smoke, many who are long time hard-core smokers, and thousands of teenagers who begin to smoke each day.

For many years the cigarette manufacturers fought the data that cigarettes are harmful to your health while evidence increased that cigarettes were responsible for a high percentage of deaths from heart disease, lung cancer and emphysema.

Now the manufacturers have been successfully sued by the various states to help compensate for the high cost of health care by the states for the treatment of diseases attributed to smoking. Taxes on cigarettes are being used for a wide variety of health care costs. Some of these taxes are also used in prevention campaigns aimed at encouraging young people not to start smoking.

Let us answer these questions ...

• Are you embarrassed and annoyed because your family and friends or your physician are always urging you to stop smoking?
• Are you worried about your health such as getting lung cancer or heart disease if you don't stop?
• Have you become discouraged because you have tried in the past and could not stop, or restarted after a short time?
• Do you think that you are so addicted that there is no hope for you?
• Are you determined to stop smoking now?

If you answered yes to ANY of the above questions and really would like to stop smoking, there are many things that you can do to stop. Many people have successfully quit on their own, while others have benefited from attending group programs that help with information and encouraging tips. Surprisingly, almost 90% of ex-smokers stopped on their own. Some of these had tried stopping many times. Each time you try to quit, the chances are better that you will stop smoking.

Facts about SMOKING :

1. Recent surveys show that 25 percent of all American adults smoke.
2. More than 430,000 deaths in the United States each year are attributable to tobacco use, making tobacco the No. 1 cause of death and disease in this country. (United States)
3. Smoking prevalence among adolescents has risen dramatically since 1990, with more than 3,000 additional children and adolescents becoming regular users of tobacco each day.
4. Nationwide, medical care costs attributable to smoking (or smoking-related disease) have been estimated by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention to be more than $50 billion annually. In addition, they estimate the value of lost earnings and loss of productivity to be at least another $47 billion a year.
5. It would cost an estimated $6.3 billion annually to provide 75 percent of smokers 18 years and older with the intervention—counseling, nicotine patches, nicotine gum, or a combination—of their choice. This would result in 1.7 million new quitters at an average cost of $3,779 per quitter—a move that would be cost-effective in relation to other medical interventions such as mammography or blood pressure screening.
6. Epidemiologic data suggest that more than 70 percent of the 50 million smokers in the United States today have made at least one prior quit attempt, and approximately 46 percent try to quit each year. Most smokers make several quit attempts before they successfully kick the habit.
7. Only 21 percent of practicing physicians say that they have received adequate training to help their patients stop smoking, according to a recent survey of U.S. medical school deans published in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The majority of medical schools do not require clinical training in smoking cessation techniques. It is hoped that this guideline will serve as a call to action.

Practical Applications on Quitting Smoking

Here are some things for you to try on your own if you want to stop smoking.

General:

1. Get plenty of rest. Smoking is one of the hardest addictions to overcome and you need all the energy you can get.
2. Addictions may be related to brain chemistry imbalances. Good nutrition is very essential, especially during the time you are trying to form new patterns of behavior.
3. Some habit patterns such as smoking often have triggers that go along with them. For example, sitting in a favorite chair or getting a cup of coffee, then automatically reaching for a cigarette. Try to look for these trigger emotions or habits that go along with your smoking so that you can avoid them.
4. Avoid being around others who smoke while you are trying to break the habit.

Specific:

1. Decide on a stopping date. Tell others when it will be so they can encourage you.
2. Throw all your cigarettes and any related items such as your lighter or matches away. Do not put them where you can get them again "if you need them".
3. Do not drink or use any beverages or medicines that contain caffeine or alcohol. During the time you are trying to break your cigarette habit, using any other addicting substances will cause you to be less successful. In addition, this is a good time to strongly consider giving these habits up also, as they are strong stimulants to smoking.
4. Drink plenty of water and juices during the first week you are quitting. Try to drink at least 6 glasses of water per day. Getting the nicotine out of your system is helped with increased amounts of drinks that do not contain caffeine or alcohol.
5. At any time during the day that you are at work and crave a cigarette, take a drink of water and go for a 10-20 minute walk. If you are at home, take a cool shower. It is difficult to smoke while in the shower.
6. Eat simple foods such as salads, fruits, vegetables, and whole wheat breads. Avoid overly spicy and rich foods because they may contribute to the craving for a cigarette. Avoid foods made with white flour, white rice and refined foods. Without the complete vitamins, especially B vitamins, the body often develops cravings.
7. Do not skip breakfast and then go for a "coffee break". This is a sure time to need a cigarette. Instead, eat a hearty breakfast of cereals, fruit and whole-wheat toast. Avoid high fat foods such as bacon and eggs and pastries.
8. Go to bed early. An adequate rest may naturally help to reduce the need for a cigarette to keep you calm.
9. Thoroughly air out your house; sleep with the windows open.
10. Don't wish that you could have "just one more smoke". Remember that you have just given up a disgusting habit that could kill you, and gained a freedom that will be with you for life, and improve your health dramatically.
11. If someone knows that you smoked in the past and offers you a cigarette, tell them that you are an ex-smoker. This reinforces your decision to be a non-smoker.
12. Ask God to help you. Many people fail at quitting smoking, but God honours those who trust in Him and he will supply all your needs, and help you overcome this habit if you ask Him.

One of the efforts made by Madinah City Council is to set up a bill board reminding fellow Muslims to stop smoking when we are in Madinah.

This is what it looks like :


So, Good Luck for your effort and may Allah give you strength to STOP SMOKING FOREVER ...

Ramadan_Effort

TERSUNGKUR DI AMBANG RAMADAN

Jatuh, luka, bangun semula, uabati, sembuh dan jatuh semula adalah lumrah kehidupan yang harus dilalui oleh setiap insan. Ada yang bernasib baik hanya jatuh sekali sekala dan sembuh semula dengan cepat dan tidak jatuh-jatuh lagi. Alhamdulillah, rezekinya dan qadar hidupnya memang telah ditetapkan demikian.

Pagi tadi dalam bergegas untuk menghantar kunci ke rumahku, akau terseungkur di depan pejabat di sisi keretaku. Sudah agak lama aku tidak jatuh secara fizikal (walaupun secara bathinnya aku telah banyak kali jatuh dan bangun semula) kerana begitu berhati-hati apabila doktor memberitahu aku tidak boleh jatuh kerana ia boleh menyebabkan tulang belakang aku yang telah dibedah sakit kembali.

Luka fizikal yang dapat dilihat dengan mata kita ..

Aku terjatuh dan hampir tersembam di muka jalan kerana tergelincir di atas tanah yang licin di hadapan pejabatku. Nasib baik tidak ada stafku yang melihat, kalau tidak aku mungkin merasa malu, maklumlah badan yang agak tua jatuh seperti sebiji nangka.
Semasa tidak dapat mengawal langkahku, aku sempat menahan badanku daripada terhempas terus dengan cuba menongkah badanku dengan lengan kananku dan kaki kiriku. Natijahnya, lengan kananku mengalami kesan luka dengan batu-batu kecil serta lutut kiriku juga terasa sakitnya.
Setelah membasuh dan menyapu tempat yang luka dengan Losyen Antiseptik (Povidone- Iodine), aku teringatkan kata-kata 'setiap musibah yang menimpa diri kita merupakan musibah sebagai penebus dosa (kafarah)' ...
Aku pasti ini merupakan kafarah ke atas diriku di ambang Ramadan Al-Mubarak ini. Aku sebenarnya bukanlah seorang manusia yang mulia seperti yang ditanggapi oleh rakan sekelilingku serta keluargaku. Aku rasakan hidupku dipenuhi dengan janji dan tanggungjawab yang tidak tertunai olehku walaupun masa yang diberikan 24 jam sehari atau 365 hari setahun.
Aku tidak pandai membahagikan masa...
Aku tidak pandai memberikan keutamaan dalam hidup ...
Aku tidak tunaikan sebaiknya tanggungjawab sebagai seorang ayah ..
Aku tidak tunaikan dengan sebaiknya tanggunjawab sebagai seorang suami ..
Aku tidak tunaikan tanggungjawab sebaiknya sebagai seorang majikan ..
Aku tidak solat tepat pada waktunya ..
Aku tidak melaksanakan apa yang aku katakan ..
Aku tidak zuhud kepada dunia dan apa yang dimiliki oleh orang lain..
Aku jarang bersyukur dengan nikmat yang Allah berikan ..
Aku tidak berterima-kasih dengan apa yang telah Allah kurniakan ..
Aku tidak peka dengan kesusahan orang lain ..
Aku hanya menilai sesorang daripada apa yang aku lihat ada padanya ...

Betapa banyaknya dosa dan kelemahanku !!!
Bolehkah aku menebusnya di kala usia sudah menjangkau setengah abad ini ..
Di mana maut yang boleh datang pada bila-bila masa ..
Seperti yang terjadi kepada mereka-mereka yang telah pergi si sekeliling kita ..

Di ambang Ramadan Al-Mubarak ini ..
Allah turunkan musibah yang amat ringan padaku ..
Itu pun aku dah tidak sabar menahannya ..
Apatah lagi seksa di hari pembalasan ..

Ya Allah ...
Di ambang Ramadan yang bakal tiba ..
Berilah kekuatan kepada hamba-Mu ini untuk menghabiskan saki-baki hidup ini ..
Dengan beramal kepada-Mu ...
Dengan berjuang menegakkan agama-Mu
Dengan berbakti kepada ummah ini ..
Dengan mengikut jejak rasul kekasih-Mu ..
Se hingga ke hembusan nafasku yang terakhir ...

Perkenankan doa hamba-Mu ini Ya Allah ..
Ameen Ya Rabb ...
Ya Rabb al-'alameen ..

1-September-2008 (1-Ramadhan-1429)

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